Thank you, interwebs, for reminding me that if you persist and search endlessly you will find someone in the same boat as you. Well, maybe not the exact same boat. But wedding delays do happen and I'm not a total freak for being engaged but not really. Other people do it, too, and it is not the end and all's cool.
I guess this reminded me that people's ideas about what an engagement is can be complicated and might not even match up. I thought the engagement was the easy part. But some people see it as a promise to get married eventually and some people see it as Wedding Immanent (sp?) and that can cause issues. Or not. Or whatever. But I feel a little better now.